Wow...these days I log on to orkut and everytime, there's someone in my friends circle who's changed their status to 'male,committed' or 'female,married'.
and it kinda hits me....my day is not far....i'm not too far away from officially becoming a ' married uncle' myself!
there's something in that status, though. its a statement of change.... change in your life...change in the way you think, the way you do things.
i think the change comes with being ready for it....it comes from asking yourself a few questions -
1.do you have friends of your age who have kids?
2.on a weekend, do you plonk myself in front of the tv when you could be out somewhere getting sloshed?
3.do you look forward to getting home after work?
4.when you stay alone without company for 2 days do you get bored?
5.when someone says 'did you have it yesterday', do you think about food and not about sex?
6.is your idea of 'fun' to sit at home and have a couple of beers?
7.do you have people in your family asking you dumb questions like - 'do you like slim females or 'healthy' females'?
Have i had enough of the single-guy-roaming-about-flirting-with-anything-remotely-female status? I dont know.
But when I ask myself these questions, I know i've started answering yes to a few of them.
And that means its coming. Soon....
